I am 41 soon to be 42. I have 3 kids 24, 23, and 11. The 11 year old keeps me quite busy with all his sports. I help with his baseball and coach his football team (5-1 last year). I lover to work in my flower beds and just all over yard work. To me it's relaxing time. I love to play volleyball except some days it doesn't agree with me. LOL! I also enjoy quiet time in the woods during hunting season. Married to a great man 3rd times a charm I guess. Life is good just not the weight. My goal is 160 and I hope to stay there. With this site and a great friend to help me, it should be possible. I have done it before but I never stuck to eating right. I believe this time is different. Hate the size I am.