Diario de phsmalls, 14 nov. 11

Hi, remember me? I have missed you.

I have spent most of my days over at MFP, it has taken over my FS addiction. I haven't been doing any journaling anywhere lately - not even on my blog. I have a lot going on in my head but when I sit down to write them out..well its just gone, so please forgive me is this is rambly and all over the place.


Last Wednesday I found out my brother and his girlfriend are moving out. I am pissed, not because they are moving out but because they were not gonna tell me until closer to December 1 (when they move out.) I found out accidently when the GF said something like "I am not sure if we have a microwave at the other place." I said "Other place?" and she spilled the beans. This means my niece, my brother and gf are gone, so then my brother (the nice non-douchey one) and I have to figure out how to pay an extra 375 a piece for rent. Thankfully I found out with roughly 3 weeks left to come up with the money, had my brother had his way he would have told me the day thye moved screwing me over for rent. This also meant we had to kick up our house search quite a bit so we are only tagged with a months worth of rent rather than more than that.

In some ways I am glad my brother will be gone - he stresses me out beyond belief, I actually don't talk about how stressed I really am about him - to anyone. I will miss my girl (my niece) terribly but I should still have her Monday and wednesday - for swimming, we haven't been swimming lately because she cut her leg, and then I got a tattoo but we have been crafting for christmas and it has been fun - we are almost done.

We put an offer in on a house on Saturday, they countered our offer and we just submitted another offer today (we came up to their counter offer) so hopefully this will be the house we get. We really like it, it is literally about a block from where I am living right now so moving will not be difficult - this will be my 5th winter move, moving in the winter blows!!! But if we get this place I will be super excited - I think they will accept our second offer then it is just waiting on the money stuff to go through.

um really that is all I have time to talk about, I am sorry I have been a sucky friend lately. I am just not feeling a lot of stuff lately.

   Apoyo   

Comentarios 
Fantastic news about the new house... Do hope you hear soon that they have accepted your offer. I know you will miss your niece ... But it will probably be much better without your brother and his gf being around. - he's a bit of a s**t trying to keep it quiet and dump you in It with the rent. Good riddance..... Glad your getting on ok :-) 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: Sk1nnyfuture
Girl I hopw you get your house..sorry you will miss your niece..but the times you will get to be with each other will be fab..I know cause when I finally get to see mine its great and we have such fun...I hate your brother is doing you this way..that sucks...catch you later....☺ 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: BHA
What he is doing is honestly no major shock, he is a d!ck, there is no nice way to say it. He has been this way forever, it is as if he feels I owe him so much I gave up trying to care a long time ago, and kind of accepted being his doormat - sounds terrible I know but it is what it is lol I just look forward to being a bit less stressed is all. However; I feel we will have a fight before he leaves because he will more than likely try to take my dishes/silverware etc. 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: phsmalls
As long as he doesn't take Lu away from you..you can always get silverware...or dishes..etc..Love ya kiddo....☺ 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: BHA
Well this whole move is because his gf doesn't think I am a good role model for my niece - with my foul mouth and tattoos (he told my mother this, I do swear but my niece has only used it once and she used it in proper context and she got after herself for doing it.) and they don't like my dog - she barks too much and has accidents.. and I wont allow him to kick, hiss or punish my dog (that is my job). 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: phsmalls
Good riddance to bad rubbish. As for tattoos, language and doggies, I bet he and his gf think their butts don't stink. I hope he doesn't drop too much more on you before they're out the door. Good luck getting the new house. I hope it's everything you want and need. Hugs! 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: Johanne
LOL Johanne..I was thinking the same thing..I think he has abused you enough in how he has put things on you girl..and he better no hurt your little dog...I would whip his butt up one side and down the other!!!!! 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: BHA
Your brother is behaving like an asshat. YOU are freaking awesome. <3 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: ferlengheti
Well tattoos and language are just the start of it lol. I honestly don't see any issues with either of them and I do try to keep it toned down when she is with me BUT I refuse to say meany face and poopy head when I am really mad lol.. if he was to kick my dog he would be tasting boot leather until the day he died because thats how hard I would kick him in the ass. 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: phsmalls
this is how my brother always acts... I lived with him one time and he told me 3 days before I had to move that they gave notice on an apartment.. lol 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: phsmalls
Meany face and poopy head? Do real adults actually use that kind of language? LMAO!!! That reminds me of when my MIL and I were in a hotel room in England. I was really tired at the end of a long day and went to bed early. She stayed up to hand wash some undies and had the TV on. The next thing I know she's saying, "Bonnie, Bonnie, you have to roll over and watch this. They're in the shower and she's WASHING his DING DONG!" (American TV is, to put it lightly, cencored!) I don't think I've ever laughed so hard in my life,That was 27 years ago and I've never forgotten it. Hehe!!! 
14 nov. 11 por el miembro: Johanne
idk if any self respecting adult says those I just feel that that is how they want me to talk, and that is totally not me. I mean its not like every other word is a curse but I do curse. American TV is over censored I my opinion. I watch UK TV shows all the time and it makes me laugh at how carefree they are. I think I would have laughed until I peed had I been there to hear your MIL say that. 
15 nov. 11 por el miembro: phsmalls
I must be outta the loop as I have no idea what MFP stands for but then most days I can't find the loop lol! I know how it feels to have a roomie move just before rent day and it too blows but hope you get the house! And YAY on less stress!! Oh, and I prefer the british comedies! (((HUGS))) ♥ 
15 nov. 11 por el miembro: RubyRedSox
lol i just love british TV/movies period..my current love is a show called Misfits, I do love my Coronation Street and I used to love Skins, but the US ruined it and then the UK..I am not sure I just fell out of love with it.. but the inbetweeners are pretty good too lol oh and Torchwood - but this last season was more US than UK so IDK about that. MFP is my fitness pal, same basic idea as this, more of a tool, better layout, moderated forums - so rarely any BS, news feeds come up as links so if you want to read a friends blog/journal you can but you don't have to, forum topics are on the side.. I have yet to hear anything about the house, but this is not a big surprise as the real estate person we are dealing with is currently in California, and I am not sure what is going on or if she passed the info on to the person who is her fill in at the moment up here.. lol 
15 nov. 11 por el miembro: phsmalls
I hope you guys get the house! That will be so freaking great for you. I totally think your bro is a poopey face. =) I actually DO say things like that, only because...well...because that's just me. BUT, I can cuss like a sailor too. hehe. BUT I would in no WAY EVER think you were a bad influence. Being yourself and loving the person you are is a GREAT example for any child. I don't even know if I'm able to watch UK TV on the cable system we have but it sounds interesting. I used to love ABFAB back in the day. I'm pretty sure that was UK.  
15 nov. 11 por el miembro: HerStrawberri
I hope you get the house! And your brother is a being a jerk - glad that you will still have ways to see Loo regularly though.  
15 nov. 11 por el miembro: Z'sMama

     
 

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