Diario de DJM, 07 nov. 09

I hear you DJM about the hours our significant others choose to eat. You just have to do for yourself...keep a couple of soups on hand for quick choices to opt out, by simply saying I feel like soup tonight. I can't eat the pizza tonight I'll blow my diet to hell...then show him your ability to let him eat it and it doesn't bother you. More than a couple of times when an household argument had taken place a high caloric food shows up in the house in my face...it could be a control thing...it was in my house for awhile...just to watch me fail...stay strong and defer next time. See what kind of reaction it gets? Try eating for yourself at the same general time...you'll have to if you become diabetic...and you don' t want to have that happen...it's a drag...trust me. 

Thanks for the advice. The biggest problem is that I work shifts and we have gotten so used to eating after 9pm at least 3 nites a week. I really want to cut out the late nite eating because it doesn't go anywhere but on my hips.However, He still waits for me to come home before he eats dinner ( gotta admit I've spoiled him by always making him dinner ever nite no matter what the time) Guess I just have to pre-make his dinner before I go to work so that when he gets home its ready for him.