Keep the faith sweetheart; at least you didn't marry him. My first husband was like that and always found ways to belittle me even when I WAS 130lbs. Now I am 218 as of today down from a high of 267. Working it one day ay a time by changing my eating habits for the better. Marcy
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: marcysheck
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I hope everything works out for you. You both deserve to be happy.
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: JDbowler
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Support, support, support, support, support, support, support, I can only click the button once. :(
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: jparlett
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Ah, that's not good, I wish you the best.
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: snezica
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Wishing the best for you!
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: LoadGod
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12 ene. 15 por el miembro: kehfeh
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You've got the right attitude about the situation, to not let it poison your outlook. Good luck on your journey (moving is never fun TT-TT )
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: kitty-eared-girl
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We're here if you ever need us. You sound like it wasn't a really big surprise. You seem very considered and open to whatever lays before you. That's a great starting point.
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: northernmusician
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Aw hugs good on you for being such a strong person
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: Instantcrazy
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Way to look out for yourself, and I hope he starts to appreciate what he might lose! Best wishes to both of you.
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: Woperchild
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You deserve better, to be with someone who accepts you. I got lucky. My husband married me when I was larger than I am now and then I ballooned up to 327 when I was ill. One day at a time.
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: msbuggirl
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Wishing you the best and it sounds like you know what you want. All I can say is don't settle for less.
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: jmb3450
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good luck. you sound like you are in a good place with it. good perspective.
12 ene. 15 por el miembro: br_e_co
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I'm very proud of you for having the strength to do this and I wish you the best of luck on your new journey :)
13 ene. 15 por el miembro: Socolova
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It is possible to find someone who loves you, fat, thin, or in between. You're right not to settle on being partially accepted and loved. You deserve to be loved for all of you, no matter what number the scale gives you, or what pant size you wear. Hang in there!
13 ene. 15 por el miembro: tempest_spirit
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i wish i'm that wise:) i'm still in the bitter mood. i'm exactly the opposite when i took weight he left me:) u look gorgeous and yes you are right we all want someone who love us for what we are as beauty goes with time what matter is our character
13 ene. 15 por el miembro: nadouchka_b
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It can't be good for you to feel like he doesn't want to touch you. Transference can be the result... later thinking the next person(s) down the road feel the same. Perhaps you could get counseling as well for your own peace of mind. I got counseling after my ex-wife left me and my two children. It was tough getting over the loss. Today, she lives in another town far away and has no contact with us. We are good because of the counseling and learning to forgive.
You made the right choice by moving out. Don't forget to keep making good choices FOR YOU.
13 ene. 15 por el miembro: cstout30
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You know what is best for you. Stay positive. Be kind to yourself. (hugs)
14 ene. 15 por el miembro: Deb_N
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